AITAH if I don't go to the funeral of my partners uncle whom I've never met 1.5 hours away on a work day?

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The original was posted on /r/aitah by /u/apunforallseasons on 2023-07-19 09:42:12.

I haven't met the uncle and he had been in palliative care a while. I feel a bit strange going to the funeral of someone I've never met. My partner would like to have me there. I have met her cousin (uncles daughter) a few times.

Not sure how I feel about this one