which is the best solution to selfhosted n8n?

hi folks i am starting to use n8n and i want to do some automations in my kommo crm and other things, but i have seen that there are several ways to install n8n in a self hosted way, so my question is for those who have n8n as self hosted services,

which would be the best way to install it?

- docker without database?
- docker with database and which database would be better postgress or mysql?
thanks