Do you actually care about your friend's new baby, vacation abroad or similar life events or are you just being nice?
  • Countess425 Countess425 5d ago 100%

    It doesn't necessarily have to be about a trip you took. It could be about anything, even something you feel you were specifically asked about. Do you think the people who ask you about those things really care about the things you care about the same way you do and so they want to hear everything you have to say? Maybe they do, but it's really very rare for people to care about things the exact way anybody else does.

    Just because somebody asked doesn't mean they care about the thing. A significant majority of the time people ask, and then actually listen, it's because they care about you, not any particular thing. And those people probably like to be heard just as much.

    1
  • Mark Robinson sues CNN for leaking 'Black Nazi' porn site messages
  • Countess425 Countess425 5d ago 100%

    I've heard rumors that it was leaked by the GOP specifically to get him to drop out before it was too late, but he's a stubborn Trumper, so I hope they're enjoying the beast they created.

    4
  • Mark Robinson sues CNN for leaking 'Black Nazi' porn site messages
  • Countess425 Countess425 5d ago 100%

    I wouldn't say zero penalty; his poll numbers are shit. They were before the story leaked, but nobody seems to be Teflon the way Trump is. He's possibly tanking North Carolina down ballot, and could even flip the state for Kamala. His political career is surely finished. It would have been before now if the GOP had their way, they tried really hard to get him to drop out.

    15
  • Do you actually care about your friend's new baby, vacation abroad or similar life events or are you just being nice?
  • Countess425 Countess425 5d ago 100%

    Do you think everyone you talk to enjoys every aspect of the things you have to talk about? Do you appreciate that they listen?

    3
  • Millions of Christians not planning to vote this November, could shape election: Study
  • Countess425 Countess425 2w ago 87%

    That is accurate in a theoretical bubble, but in practice, in a two party system, in an incredibly close race, it's simply not true.

    6
  • Is it okay to fake Vitiligo makeup for a cosplay??
  • Countess425 Countess425 2w ago 60%

    I feel like if you're unsure enough to ask the Internet about something like this, the safest bet is to just not do it.

    Sounds like you're gonna do it anyway, tho, so good luck.

    2
  • Millions of Christians not planning to vote this November, could shape election: Study
  • Countess425 Countess425 2w ago 92%

    By your own logic if A wins by 1 vote and you chose not to vote for your guy, B, you essentially gave your vote to A. Good job.

    11
  • Millions of Christians not planning to vote this November, could shape election: Study
  • Countess425 Countess425 2w ago 86%

    We live in a two party system. Not voting for your guy is essentially a vote for the other guy. Especially when elections are this close.

    16
  • How many pieces of toilet paper do you use to wipe after peeing?
  • Countess425 Countess425 3w ago 100%

    I definitely use more than I need. #Privileged

    8
  • Lemmy's have you ever been "profiled" or judged preemptively? What is your story ?
  • Countess425 Countess425 3w ago 93%

    I look really young. Like I'm 40 but routinely pass for early 20s or even late teens if I do my makeup with that aim.

    I get carded buying alcohol a lot. I hated it until I was about 27, and it really started to make me feel great! Especially once my gray hair started growing in (I dye it regularly so nobody really sees them, but I know they're there). If all you're trying to do is guess how old I am from how I look, I will love your answer.

    But people often judge my experience or expertise as if I am only as old as I look when I am really twice that age. I hate when people assume I'm the office assistant or new hire when I'm the Assistant Director. I had physical therapy for several months due to a chronic shoulder injury, and the old ladies there loved to tell (not ask) me that physical therapy must be so easy for me as if my joints aren't fucked and my pain and effort aren't real. Still pisses me off so much.

    And don't get me started on the creepy old guys who see legal jail bait...eugh.

    13
  • Republican Karl Rove says Trump got ‘crushed by a woman he called dumb as a rock’ during ‘train wreck’ debate
  • Countess425 Countess425 1mo ago 100%

    W's office has already said neither he nor his wife will comment on how they're voting this election.

    He wrote in "Condoleezza Rice" in 2020.

    2
  • 'Trump is desperate': Ex-GOP aide thinks a Vance-RFK swap is a real possibility
  • Countess425 Countess425 2mo ago 100%

    At this point there's no way to do it legally. Ballots are already being printed. But legality's not an issue for Trump and his personal fan club.

    I think Vance could step down, then Trump would have no running mate, I think? And a VP would be appointed by Congress if he wins? Idk.

    43
  • 196
    196 2mo ago
    Jump
    Haunted rule
  • Countess425 Countess425 2mo ago 100%

    It's me. I'm that ghost. Or I will be one day.

    9
  • memes
    Memes 2mo ago
    Jump
    Stone Based Stripper Names Ranked
  • Countess425 Countess425 2mo ago 100%

    Jasper's a pretty popular stripper name, it seems.

    1
  • What is the OLDEST online account that you currently still own and still use somewhat frequently?
  • Countess425 Countess425 2mo ago 100%

    eBay is my oldest, not sure when exactly, 2001-2002-2003 something like that.

    Next is my Something Awful forums account from 2005.

    5
  • CDC gives doctors new IUD insertion guidelines after TikTok outcry
  • Countess425 Countess425 2mo ago 100%

    Ditto. It was totally worth it, I loved my mirena. But yeah it turns out you can pass out from the pain of having your cervix tugged on, and my doctor told me to quit being so hysterical. Like I was making a choice to lose consciousness for the fun of it.

    I didn't even get ibuprofen, I just got some mifepristone in advance that does not treat pain at all.

    12
  • news
    News 3mo ago
    Jump
    Elon Musk’s X Is Leaving San Francisco
  • Countess425 Countess425 3mo ago 100%

    There's not as many as you'd think, it's just they're all so loud and every single one of them has an eyesore of a cybertruck. It's like confirmation bias.

    7
  • "Initials" by "Florian Körner", licensed under "CC0 1.0". / Remix of the original. - Created with dicebear.comInitialsFlorian Körnerhttps://github.com/dicebear/dicebearVA
    The Iliad and the Odyssey
    11
    1
    "Initials" by "Florian Körner", licensed under "CC0 1.0". / Remix of the original. - Created with dicebear.comInitialsFlorian Körnerhttps://github.com/dicebear/dicebearWI
    Drop Your Favorite Etsy Store!

    I'm decorating a new house. I want it to be witchy as hell. I get a whole room just for myself where it can be Halloween all year round, even. Please let me know who is great to work with and has great shipping and who has the best celestial embroidery art because I'm having a hard time finding that!

    1
    1

    Just out of frame is a monstera I'm pretty proud of (my husband got one at the same time as me, and mine has exploded. His has...not died).

    55
    6

    I got this manicure done back in May 2021 for my SIL's wedding. I feel like this is a picture of my soul. 💗💗 Nails done by Tia at Cute Nail Studio in Austin, TX.

    7
    0