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Common Sense SPR_860 5mo ago 100%
Dating DiCaprio or Fighting the Taliban

Journalists wildly exaggerate how much neurology knows about brains. but assuming that a good prefrontal cortex is helpful for good decision making, a soldier occupying a country w/ a hostile population where he doesn't speak the language, has a desperate need for one. If the "prefrontal cortex" myth is true, how on earth did we send 18 year olds to war in Iraq, Afghanistan, and Vietnam? There is no job in the world that requires more rational thinking than making life or death decisions effecting civilians, all your buddies, and yourself. but no world government has ever said that in combat they'll only have men over 25 years of age. Never. Not once in thousands of years of this obvious problem, has anyone noticed the problem, written about it, or tried to fix it. (hint: it's bullshit) but when it comes to sex, women under 25 who decide to date a rich, famous, good-looking movie star are immediately diagnosed with the young stupid prefrontal cortex syndrome. Having romantic relationships is so much harder than living in a war zone and being sent into combat every day and trying not to kill civilians, or get killed, or let your comrades get killed... Gotta have full brain development before you kiss a hot guy. I mean OMG. #SPR860

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Common Sense SPR_860 10mo ago 100%
Crypto is not the future. It's Medieval.

There's a scene in the Game of Thrones where a man called The Hound finds out where an old farmer has hidden his silver. The Hound promptly robs him. There was, of course, no way to call the police. The state was not there to defend the old man's property. This was a fairly typical problem in ancient and medieval times. In modern times if Mr Jones kept a bag of gold on his kitchen table, few would try to steal it because most peeps would be deterred by the threat of incarceration. Jones can call the cops. The state sometimes fails, but it sincerely tries to protect Jones' property rights. But even this low level of risk is too much for most people. Mr Smith prefers to keep his money in the bank. The state insures his deposits there. Official channels allow him to access his monetary assets, and he has legal recourse if there is any dispute. The BitCoin ideology however says that the state should have no role in the financial system. So BitCoiners take their money out of legally existing institutions. They might put their virtual cash on an exchange, the crypto equivalent of a bank, but those have been collapsing as their founders simply stole the money. So crypto enthusiasts are left trying to figure out how to keep their valuables (which are really just long chains of letters and numbers stored on a computer) safe in their own homes. It's a return to ancient times where everyone has to fend for themselves. Today it's not likely to be a nasty barbarian with a battle ax, but the chances hackers will try to get your crypto wealth thru digital trickery are very high. If you want to spend the rest of your life trying to stay one step ahead of the hackers who would love to steal the virtual bag of cyber-gold you keep in your living room, go ahead and convert your assets to BitCoin. The vast majority of the population will not join you on your journey back to the medieval stateless Wild West of crypto-finance.

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Common Sense SPR_860 10mo ago 75%
I had another typical YouTube experience.

Clicked on a title containing an interesting topic. The title ends with "Here's Why" (which is of course a lie. YouTubers don't know. They don't tell you why, and if they did, they'd be wrong.) I see an attractive extrovert who loves the sound of her own voice. She's not very bright. She reads a few lies from some magazine articles. She repeats some long ago debunked garbage about testosterone. She repeats some of the trite old observations like "I find it so interesting that when the woman is older, she's a cougar and that's like cool, but if the man is older then he's seen as creepy" Wow. Fucking Einstein here. The comments surprised me tho' Under a vid about young people not having sex, everyone, tons of people were writing their age, sexual history, and why they are or are not having sex. To me this is totally bizarre. Why the fuck would anyone care? and WTF would motivate you to post that on the internet? I guess some part of my brain is missing. The part that makes you want to type out your sex life for the world to see in the YouTube comment section.

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Common Sense SPR_860 10mo ago 100%
Thought Crimes

The revival of Puritanism is making everyone yap about the horrid thought crimes that were committed against them. "I was 12 when a guy thought I was cute and made eyes at me." Utterly boring, typical behavior is reframed as sexual abuse. Usually facilitated by some extremely vague but negative sounding word like "sexualized" #SPR860

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Common Sense SPR_860 11mo ago 100%
Puritan Revival is leading a wave of sexphobia

and you can hear it in the way younger generations comment on 30 year old TV shows. Watch this vid: https://youtu.be/QtLPewEg-yc .#SPR860

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Common Sense SPR_860 1y ago 100%
Senseless Incarceration and Turning Healthy Young People into Sex Offenders

“They dated since he was 17. He turned 18 and now faces 15 years behind bars.” And when he gets out he will be on the Sex Offender Registry, too. https://miamiherald.com/news/local/community/florida-keys/article225560840.html .

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Common Sense SPR_860 1y ago 66%
Air and water are totally overrated anyway

Insane weirdos e.g. Musk, think that we need to make more babies, cuz somehow having less than 10 billion people in the near future is not enough, but simultaneously this planet sucks, so we gotta move to Mars, a much smaller planet, which has no air or water. #Batshit

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Common Sense SPR_860 1y ago 100%
How we got teen pregnancy totally wrong and then made everything much much worse...

Statistically poverty, substance abuse, and dysfunctional families often correlate. Domestic abuse is in the mix too. No one can isolate one single cause, because the world doesn’t work in the oversimplified way we’d like it to. Imagine you’re a girl in a poor abusive household. There’s really not much you can do but pray for a better future. Then you hit puberty, and you become sexually attractive to the men in town. This may be the first power you have ever had. Some peeps are endowed with the power to physically or psychologically dominate their peers with implied threats of violence. Others are gifted with natural leadership abilities. But not all. Then there’s a group that is simply pretty and sexy. If you are this poor young woman from an abusive family, and by chance, nature gives you a sexy body that men like, why wouldn’t you start flirting with a man who treats you nicely and makes you feel loved? And wouldn’t it be even better if the man had a job and a car? Your way to get away from your hellish home on a Saturday night may literally be the vehicle owned by your new boyfriend, but your ticket to a better life could definitely seem like a serious relationship with a somewhat older man. Young adults (aka teens) from poor families tend to have more unplanned pregnancies than their peers from rich families. There are many possible reasons for that. Better access to contraception being the most obvious one. Young adults (aka teens) from rich families also have much better access to options for terminating an unplanned pregnancy than their poor counterparts. So statistically teenage mothers tend to be much less wealthy than older first time mothers. There was a famous study done by Darroch in the 90s. (see below) It shows a lot of what I have outlined here. When California Gov Gray Davis saw the study, however, he ignored all the relevant data, and decided that the CAUSE of all these problems was statutory rape. His plan was to get the cops & prosecutors to put more of the boyfriends with jobs & cars in prison as a way to solve the teen pregnancy problem. This was, of course, illogical to the point of batshit crazy. Smart people at the time pointed that out. https://guttmacher.org/journals/psrh/1996/01/can-statutory-rape-laws-be-effective-preventing-adolescent-pregnancy So people in the 90s screwed up. Big deal. Who cares? The main issue here, is that Gov Davis’s batshit stupid thinking went mainstream, and dominates our discourse to this day. Big TV personalities like Oprah picked it up and spread it generously. The goofy myth based on contorted logic took on a life of its own. The general public, who never spend a lot of time digging into the research or thinking things thru, started to believe that the causation runs opposite to the reality. That is to say, people now believe that teenage women dating men 10 years older than them causes them to be poor and show the symptoms of an abuse victim. The obvious reality is that poverty and dysfunction is what led them to choose that partner in the first place. Criminalizing a young woman’s choice of boyfriend isn’t the way to make her life happy and healthy. Incarcerating the father of a young woman’s baby is one of the worst things you can do to her and her infant. We need to bring a little common sense back to this discussion. ![](https://lemm.ee/api/v3/image_proxy?url=https%3A%2F%2Flemmy.tf%2Fpictrs%2Fimage%2Fbe27590e-7064-491b-b53a-b67167966497.jpeg)

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Common Sense SPR_860 1y ago 60%
“finish developing” is a giant red herring.

Our brains and bodies never stop changing. There is no point of “finish developing”. and even if there was that wouldn't prove people before that point are stupid. The whole idea is garbage that bigots use to justify hating on specific demographic. and “lacking any real life experience”? well, sure, because we barred them from entering adult society. They have been legally and socially prevented from gaining any of that experience. That’s not a problem with them, that’s a direct result of us treating them like shit, and creating a problem that need not exist.

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Common Sense SPR_860 1y ago 66%
Rampant Slut-Shaming is making us all pretend to be Asexual.

A radical change in the way we see ourselves, our bodies, and sexuality, and normal human interactions, coincides with the meteoric rise of the word "sexualize" https://kraut.zone/w/vNBPA96oiUohpm2HpT7HuF .

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Common Sense SPR_860 1y ago 66%
Bullying

Bullying is natural, which is all the more reason we have to fight it. When you think someone is creepy.... ask yourself... kraut.zone/w/vetZGvKLfGC1c1UKZ (24 min)

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  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 100%

    Oooooo. Clever.

    (I've only been on Lemmy for a short time. Is there anyone here with an IQ over 85?)

    EDIT: this place is teeming with vile scumbags

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  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 66%

    So I easily smash your dumb argument, and you immediately reach for the ad hominem.

    Cool.

    You have zero substance. I provided a clear argument showing how you are completely wrong, and you bla bla bla about nothing. Embarrassing, dude.

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    "but teens are in entry level positions!"
  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 100%

    The "brain fully developed" thing is a really stupid urban myth. It has been thoroughly debunked.

    In fact in many ways the teenage brain is superior to older brains. Arguably our brains decay from about age 13 on.

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  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 66%

    "finish developing" is a giant red herring.

    Our brains and bodies never stop changing. There is no point of "finish developing". and even if there was that doesn't mean that people before that point are stupid. The whole idea is garbage that bigots use to justify hating on specific demographic.

    and "lacking any real life experience"? well, sure, because we barred them from entering adult society. They have been legally and socially prevented from gaining any of that experience. That's not a problem with them, that's a direct result of us treating them like shit, and creating a problem that need not exist.

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    "but teens are in entry level positions!"

    People with zero experience in the field will start in an entry level position. That has nothing to do with age. It is true if you are 36, 16, or 56. The simple fact is that 16 year olds are not children. They have nothing in common with 6 year olds, but almost everything in common with 26 year olds.

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    Power Imbalance Arguments Are Nonsense
  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 40%

    Power imbalance arguments are nonsense because

    existence of power =/= abuse of power

    and even if it did (which it obviously doesn’t) we still have no way to measure power. As in the example above. Maybe he was exploiting her, or maybe the other way round. Or maybe no one was exploiting anyone and they were just in love.

    We can read tabloids and be judgemental weasels 'till the cows come home and it doesn’t really matter, but if people are claiming that “power dynamics” prove that sex is rape, well now we’re talking about a serious felony. It would be atrocious to put someone in prison based on the absurd bullshit people yap about power imbalances.

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    Power Imbalance Arguments Are Nonsense
  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 40%

    All relationships have power imbalances. One party is always taller, stronger, better-looking, richer, smarter, better-connected, more savvy, more charismatic, etc.

    This new dogma that says “power imbalance = abuse” is ridiculous AF. It’s amazing people can repeat it with a straight face.

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    Common Sense SPR_860 1y ago 80%
    Dark Brain Science

    Nazi scientists used to poke around people’s brains looking for ways to claim that dark-skinned people are inferior and justify treating them like dirt. Today our scientists are poking around people’s brains looking for ways to claim that teenagers are inferior and justify treating them like dirt.

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    Power Imbalance Arguments Are Nonsense

    If power imbalances cause rape, then one of those two was raping the other, right? They can’t consent because of the power dynamics. One of them must be abusing their power. but WHO HAS MORE POWER? is it Millionaire vs Dumb Blonde? or Decrepit Old Fool vs Hot Sexy Vixen?

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    Common Sense SPR_860 1y ago 57%
    Some Things Are Obvious

    We see teens employed at the exact same jobs as other adults, doing the exact same work for the exact same pay, and paying the exact same taxes, driving the same cars on the same roads. 16 year olds have beards, and breasts, they are 100% completely adult in every way.

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    Ephebophilia
  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 100%

    Is this woman 16 or 26 ?

    There is literally no way to know. Teens are identical to 20-somethings.

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    Common Sense SPR_860 1y ago 100%
    Neo-Puritanism is the Upside-Down version of Puritanism

    Gens Y and Z are against kink-shaming and very accepting of all sorts of weird perversions. At the same time they are extremely sex-negative. They consider any hint of "power dynamics" an act of violence. They think age-gaps are terrible and traumatizing too (despite giant piles of evidence to the contrary).

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    Common Sense SPR_860 1y ago 80%
    The Olds Weren't Wrong About Everything

    In the 1980s the paradigm was different. Teenager and Young Adult were synonyms at that time. Feminists got pissed off if you called any post-pubescent female a "girl" They said calling teens children is egregious infantilization. They were right.

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    Rising Sexphobia
  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 100%

    I mean exactly what I wrote.

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    Ephebophilia

    There is not a shred of scientific evidence for the existence of ephebophilia, but everyone acts like it's real.

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    Common Sense SPR_860 1y ago 100%
    Creative Conservative is an Oxymoron

    Creativity is about new ideas. Being conservative is opposing new ideas. Any creative field will be dominated by non-conservative people. That's why lefties wield power in Hollywood. They must have creative free-thinkers or the art promptly dies.

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  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 80%

    The vast majority of brain development happens during puberty. Nature gives you an adult brain to go along with your adult body simultaneously. Which by the way, is the only system that would make any sense.

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    Common Sense SPR_860 1y ago 77%
    Brains and Bodies

    Just like the human body the human brain changes quickly during puberty then slowly for the rest of your life. There is no magical point of "fully matured". That's a garbage paradigm. Looking for it creates lots of dumb clickbait that people love to parrot tho' ![](https://lemm.ee/api/v3/image_proxy?url=https%3A%2F%2Flemmy.tf%2Fpictrs%2Fimage%2F38c3e4f0-c3b6-402d-a68a-a628b8e9bdcf.png) ![](https://lemm.ee/api/v3/image_proxy?url=https%3A%2F%2Flemmy.tf%2Fpictrs%2Fimage%2F8e542a64-88f9-46b4-8724-95bd1a9c683a.png)

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    Any truly unpopular opinion will get you banned from Lemmy
  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 75%

    again with the vile accusations

    you're proving my point

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  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 75%

    bla bla bla

    Lemmy is dominated by people like you who have no interest in serious discussion.

    Just a big cheerleading session with lots of people who already agree with you.

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  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 66%

    Your virtue signalling will do exactly what it is designed to.

    You will look like a truly moral person, and I will get banned for asking uncomfortable questions, and telling truths that nobody can stand seeing.

    but nobody will learn anything. nobody's life will be better because of your dumb virtue signalling.

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  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 60%

    Yet you are unwilling to spend 2 minutes learning what pedophilia is.

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  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 66%

    People HATE when you challenge their ideas.

    Teens are not children.

    Pedophilia has nothing to do with teens.

    but simple facts like that will get you banned from social media.

    Hmmmmmmm.

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  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 57%

    Unpopular opinion and a flurry of vile abuse follows.

    It's like I said. There is no serious discussion on Lemmy.

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  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 57%

    I posted an unpopular opinion and I was told to go fuck myself.

    There is no serious discussion on Lemmy.

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  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 44%

    Any mention of teenagers being normal human beings with normal lives and rights is taboo.

    Pedophilia has nothing to do with teenagers. Even giving the correct scientific definition of pedophilia will get you banned. Lemmy allows no serious discussion.

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  • SPR_860 SPR_860 1y ago 33%

    You may think this is a joke or a pathetic cop out, but I was literally banned yesterday for posting 3 unpopular opinions in a Lemmy thread (which specifically asked for opinions which will get downvoted).

    If I post them again, I'll be banned again within 24 hours.

    (I have NEVER posted anything illegal or immoral)

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