carlyman 1y ago • 100%
What my perfect use-case would be:
- Private instance (@mydomain.org)
- Allow other instance USERS to be able to DM me (user@matrix.org --> me@mydomain.org and vice versa)
- NOT allow my instance users to join rooms on other instances (child@mydomain cannot join room@matrix.org)
But given how DMs are essentially rooms...I'm not sure that level of fidelity is possible
carlyman 1y ago • 100%
I'm on the same path trying to find a solution. Is it possible to just whitelist certain accounts without all the public rooms. E.g., I have my own instance, but want to allow a DM from friend@matrix.org without allowing public rooms or other random DMs?
As far as I can tell...you can't. Debating just using XMPP instead.
carlyman 1y ago • 100%
For a whole house filter, what's the best kind? Is reverse osmosis system worth it?
carlyman 1y ago • 100%
Yes...but still takes forever for the recipes I've seen. Any recommendations?
carlyman 1y ago • 100%
I've never done the math with homemade... But the prepackaged stuff has a gazillion milligrams of sodium. So I always avoid it.
carlyman 1y ago • 100%
Still MUCH cheaper than buying Gillette razors....and a much better, more enjoyable shave.
What's your favorite easy-ish Ramen recipe (that doesn't take days)? I love Tonkotsu, but doing that for real takes forever.
carlyman 1y ago • 100%
Don't go so niche so quickly. I've enjoyed the broader groups here.
carlyman 1y ago • 100%
This is the feature I need....I can overlook a lot if I had this.
carlyman 1y ago • 85%
Thank you for sharing that there is nuance beyond just "she's black."
carlyman 1y ago • 100%
Fair enough.
carlyman 1y ago • 100%
There is generally some truth to clickbait titles...and the more you agree with it, the less clickbait-y it seems. "Crushing blow" is unnecessary rhetoric in my view (and I'd bet 50 cents AI wrote it).
I'm actually not arguing the intent of the article...rather just how I hope this community raises the bar in discourse.
carlyman 1y ago • 100%
I prefer to avoid clickbait titles and discussions around soundbites. If you prefer clickbait titles and rhetoric, so be it. I was hoping for something different.
carlyman 1y ago • 100%
This is the sort of discourse I left reddit for. Hope your reply made you feel better.
carlyman 1y ago • 100%
Looks wonderful. Roughly how much vodka do you end up using?
carlyman 1y ago • 75%
I agree with the sentiment....but hard not to say this isn't a clickbait title. Let's not rely on rhetoric....let's speak with data, details, and specifics to help foster actual discourse and constructive disagreement.
carlyman 1y ago • 90%
Can we avoid clickbait titles? Really hoping the Lemmy community is better than what Reddit turned into.
carlyman 1y ago • 100%
I'm not sure what they're selling....but I'd show up! Very cool.
carlyman 1y ago • 100%
uBlock does so much more than one would think. Where's a good list of all the additional capabilities / lists that go beyond just the ad-blocking?